Strength With Michelle | Start Strength Training, Perimenopause, Women Over 40, Build Muscle
You know you should be strength training. You've heard how important it is for women over 40, especially during perimenopause and menopause. You want to build muscle, feel stronger, and stay active and independent as you get older.
So why aren't you doing it?
Maybe you've never lifted weights and have absolutely no idea where to start. Or maybe you used to lift, but somewhere between work, kids, and everything else life threw at you, you stopped.
And now you're wondering how to actually make strength training part of your life.
And there's something else that's probably been on your mind lately.
You're starting to see what getting older can look like. Maybe you're watching your parents struggle with things that used to be easy. And while you know you can't control everything about your future, you're realizing you want to do what you can now to stay strong, capable, and independent for as long as possible.
Because you don't just want to live longer. You want to keep doing the things you love while you're living.
Welcome to Strength with Michelle, the podcast for women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond who are tired of thinking about lifting weights and ready to actually do it.
I'm Michelle, a board-certified health and wellness coach, personal trainer, and exercise science nerd with a master's degree to prove it. I'm also a mom of three who loves lifting heavy and helping women discover what they're capable of.
Around here, we're talking about what's really keeping you from strength training, how to feel more confident in the gym or working out at home, and how to build a strength-training routine that works with your actual life.
Because you don't need another lecture about why you should lift weights. You need help figuring out how to make it happen.
And you definitely don't need to squat 250 pounds. But we might need to have a conversation about those 10-pound dumbbells you've been using for the last five years. đ
Previously known as Weight Loss with a Side of Grace, Strength With Michelle is the same podcast with a new focus: helping women over 40 stop thinking about strength training and start making it part of their lives.
So grab that emotional-support water bottle, and let's get stronger.
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đ Get added to my Weekly Newsletter: https://transformedhealthcoaching.myflodesk.com/newsletter
And come hang out with me here on the podcast each week as we figure out how to make strength training happen in the middle of real life.
Episodes

9 hours ago
9 hours ago
18 min
When you miss a strength workout, how quickly does âmy week changedâ turn into âI can never stick with anythingâ?
A sick kid, family visiting, or something unexpected can change a perfectly reasonable plan. But an interrupted week can start to feel like a verdict on your ability to be consistent.
In this episode, Iâm sharing how a visit from my parents and a call about my sick son changed my own workout plans, and how Iâm approaching what comes next. Weâre talking about the meaning we give missed workouts, why âI only worked out onceâ deserves another look, and what it takes to return without making it a whole new project.
If youâre a woman over 40 getting started with strength training or trying to find your way back, I hope this conversation helps you handle the weeks that donât cooperate. Thereâs room here for the weeks when no workouts happen, too. The goal is to give yourself a way back when your body and circumstances allow, without turning an interruption into another reason to give up.
Ready to go from âI should liftâ to âI do liftâ?
Join me in Done Thinking. Letâs Lift!, my eight-week group coaching program for women over 40 who are getting started with strength training or coming back after time away. Youâll get strength workouts and weekly group coaching calls, with replays if you canât join live.
The total cost is $294, with two ways to pay:
đ Pay in Full â One payment of $294.
đ Choose the Payment Plan â Two monthly payments of $147.
I can't wait to help you go from âI should liftâ to âI do liftâ by building confidence with strength training and a flexible routine you can keep coming back to!
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5 days ago
5 days ago
22 min
Ever walk into the gym and feel like everyone else knows exactly what theyâre doing, and youâre hoping nobody notices you donât? You want to get stronger, but being seen figuring it out can make the weight room feel a whole lot harder to walk into.
Friend, Iâve been going to gyms for years. I have a masterâs degree in exercise science. And I can still walk into a different gym and feel uncomfortable and a little lost. Apparently, my degree did not come with a floor plan for every gym in America.
In this episode, weâre talking about feeling self-conscious at the gym, whether youâre starting strength training after 40, coming back after a break, or trying something unfamiliar. Weâll get into how an awkward moment can turn into questioning whether you belong, and what can help you move forward when âjust stop worrying about itâ is doing absolutely nothing for you.
If embarrassment has been deciding which exercises you try, or keeping you from going at all, I hope this conversation helps you take your next step. You are allowed to learn where other people can see you.
Are you ready to go from âI should liftâ to âI do liftâ?
Join me in Done Thinking. Letâs Lift!, my eight-week group coaching program for women over 40 getting started with strength training or coming back after time away. Youâll get strength workouts and weekly group coaching calls, with replays if you canât join live.
The total cost is $294, with two ways to pay:
đ Pay in Full â One payment of $294.
đ Choose the Payment Plan â Two monthly payments of $147.
Not ready to join yet, start here!
đ Get my weekly newsletter for real-life stories, encouragement, and help making strength training happen:Sign up here
đŹ Join my free community where we keep the conversation going: Join us on Facebook
Related Episodes
62 â The âFour Feetâ Rule That Might Finally Get You Strength Training
63 â You Donât Have to Love Strength Training to Do It
65 â Why Do I Keep Putting Off Strength TrainingâEven When I Have Time?

Oct 19, 2026
Oct 19, 2026
17 min
Your workout was on the calendar. Then you sat down to answer one more email, and somehow itâs dinner time and youâre telling yourself youâll lift tomorrow. Again.
What makes that especially frustrating is that you actually wanted to do it. You had a plan. You knew what workout you were going to do. So why did everything else get done first?
In this episode of Strength with Michelle, weâre talking about the gap between wanting to get stronger and actually picking up the weights. If youâre a woman over 40 who keeps putting off strength training, even when you have time, there may be more happening than âI just need to make it a priority.â
Iâm sharing something Iâve noticed in my own life, including how cleaning my house has somehow managed to outrank going for a walk. Which, if you know my feelings about cleaning, raises some questions. đ Weâll explore what might be happening when a reasonable workout plan keeps getting pushed aside, and how to plan for the moment you usually tell yourself, âLet me just finish this first.â
Youâll leave with a more useful way to look at a missed workout and a practical experiment to try with your next one. I hope this helps you understand your own patterns a little better and start giving strength training a place in the life youâre already living.
Letâs keep the conversation going!
đ Get my weekly newsletter for real-life stories, encouragement, and help making strength training happen:Sign up here
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Oct 15, 2026
Oct 15, 2026
19 min
What if the thing you've been focusing on for weight loss isn't actually what your body needs most right now?
If you're a woman over 40 who's spent years exercising to burn calories, lose weight, and make your body smaller, it might be time to rethink your approach. Especially if you're navigating perimenopause and wondering why the things that used to work don't seem to work the same way anymore.
In this episode of Strength with Michelle, we're talking about the connection between strength training and weight loss for women over 40. Does lifting weights actually help with weight loss? Should you be focusing on burning calories or building muscle? And what happens when you stop measuring the success of your workouts by how many calories you've burned?
We'll explore why strength training during perimenopause matters and why getting stronger might be one of the best things you can do for yourself in your 40s, 50s, and beyond.
If you've been stuck in the cycle of trying to lose weight through more cardio and fewer calories, this episode will give you a different way to think about exercise, your body, and what you're really working toward.
Because maybe it's time to stop asking how exercise can make you smaller and start asking what getting stronger could make possible.
Next Steps:Â
đ Leave a review. Open Apple podcast, search for Strength With Michelle, scroll down to Ratings & Reviews, tap Write a Review, choose your stars, write a few words, and hit Send. Please and Thank You!!
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Oct 12, 2026
Oct 12, 2026
21 min
Do you know you should be strength training, but you just don't like doing it?
Maybe you've tried lifting weights before and couldn't stick with it. Or maybe you keep putting it off because, well, you'd rather do just about anything else. đ
In this episode, we're talking about:
- why you don't have to love strength training to make it part of your life
- what might actually be behind your resistance to lifting
- how to stop waiting until you feel like it to get started
Because you don't have to love every workout to love what being stronger allows you to do.
Next Steps:Â
đ Leave a review. Open Apple podcast, search for Strength With Michelle, scroll down to Ratings & Reviews, tap Write a Review, choose your stars, write a few words, and hit Send. Please and Thank You!!
đŹ Join my free community: www.facebook.com/groups/michelle.transformed/
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Oct 8, 2026
Oct 8, 2026
14 min
You know strength training is important, especially for women over 40.
But knowing you should lift and actually getting started are two very different things.
If strength training feels overwhelming, youâre unsure where to begin, or you keep thinking you need more time, confidence, or a better plan before you start, this episode is for you.
Iâm sharing one surprisingly simple piece of advice that had nothing to do with exercise, but completely changed the way I think about getting started.
It might be exactly what you need to finally stop thinking about strength training and start doing it.
Next Steps:Â
đŹ Come join my free community: www.facebook.com/groups/michelle.transformed/
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Oct 5, 2026
Oct 5, 2026
19 min
For a lot of us, exercise in our 20s and 30s had one main goal: get smaller.
Burn more calories. Lose more weight. Fit into the smaller size.
But somewhere in our 40s, the goal starts to change.
We're a little less worried about what everyone else thinks of our bodies, and a little more interested in whether we'll still be able to get ourselves up off the floor when we're 70.
In this episode of Weight Loss with a Side of Grace, we're talking about what happens when strength starts to matter more than the number on the scale, and why knowing you should strength train and actually doing it are two very different things.
If you're a woman over 40 who knows strength training matters but still hasn't quite made it part of your life, I want you to listen to this one.
Because your 40s doesn't need to be another decade spent chasing smaller.
Next Steps:Â
đŹ Come join my free community: www.facebook.com/groups/michelle.transformed/
đ Visit Website to learn more about 1-1 coaching:transformedhealthcoaching.com
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Oct 1, 2026
Oct 1, 2026
14 min
You want to strength train consistently, but then life gets busy, and somehow your workouts are the first thing to disappear. Before you know it, a missed workout turns into a missed week, and youâre telling yourself youâll start again Monday.
Sound familiar?
In this episode, weâre talking about why staying consistent with strength training can feel so difficult when your schedule changes and why the problem may not be your motivation or discipline.
If youâre a woman over 40 trying to build muscle, get stronger, and make strength training part of your actual life, this episode will help you rethink what consistency really needs to look like.
Because the women who strength train for years arenât necessarily the ones whose schedules cooperate.
Theyâve learned what to do when they donât.
And that might be the piece your strength training routine has been missing. đȘ
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Sep 28, 2026
Sep 28, 2026
14 min
You know you should strength train. You know you want to lose weight. You know taking care of your health matters, especially as you get older.
So why isn't knowing that enough to actually make you do it?
If you're a woman over 35 trying to lose weight, navigate perimenopause, or finally make strength training part of your routine, you probably don't need someone else telling you what you should be doing.
In this episode, we're digging underneath the goal itself. Because saying âI want to lose weight,â âI want to get stronger,â or âI want to be healthier for my kidsâ may only be the beginning of the answer.
I'll walk you through a simple exercise to uncover what's really behind your goals, and why that answer might matter more than another diet, workout plan, or motivational speech.
Because maybe the question isn't âWhat should I be doing?â
Maybe there's a better question to ask.Â
Next Steps:Â
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Sep 24, 2026
Sep 24, 2026
17 min
Why are you not losing weight when youâre eating healthy, exercising, getting enough protein, drinking water, and doing everything youâre supposed to do?
If youâre trying to lose weight but the scale has been stuck for months, itâs easy to blame your metabolism, hormones, or perimenopause, and wonder if your body simply refuses to lose weight.
I know that feeling because I used to be completely convinced it was true for me.
In this episode, Iâm sharing what finally changed the way I looked at my own weight loss plateau and what I want you to consider before deciding that your body, metabolism, or perimenopause hormones are the reason you canât lose weight.
If youâre a woman over 35 who feels like youâre doing all the things to lose weight but still stuck, this episode will help you stop trying harder at everything and start asking a much more useful question.
Because sometimes you donât need another diet, stricter food rules, or more exercise.
You need to see what you havenât been seeing.
Next Steps:Â
đŹ Come join my free community: www.facebook.com/groups/michelle.transformed/
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